Have you ever wondered how great it must be to be able to pick up any girl? I mean, walking into a club or a bar, seeing a girl and walk away with her number 10 minutes later. Not only is this possible, but for many guys its a lifestyle. The fact that most single guys have no idea how to really talk to women means that these guys have an open playing field. When they do approach girls they are so taken with these guys that they cannot help but to feel attracted to them.
While there are a lot of theories and general rubbish going around of how to talk to women, it really is not the determining factor. It all comes down to your attitude and your approach. More than anything you have to stand out and be different.
Think about it. Hot girls get approached by guys all the time. 99.9% of these guys come up to them like scared dogs - intimidated by how beautiful they are. Women can sense this immediately. They also have this attitude that what they really want from her is sex and that they will do anything to get it - including everything she might ask of them. Since these girls get so much attention, guys will go to extreme lengths to get their attention.
So how do you get these girls if the good looking, the rich and the charming can't?
Well, you start by being the exact opposite than these guys. Its all about your attitude. here are some important points.
- Always approach these girls with a genuine attitude that you do not want to "get with" them. Approach them like you would approach your cousin or one of your friends. This immediately breaks down that barrier and women can sense your intentions immediately.
- Your goal is not to sleep with her as soon as possible. As long as that's your goal it will probably never happen. Your goal is only to connect with her, to make her laugh and to build a friendship as soon as possible.
- Never ask her out on a date. Think about it. She probably has 10 or 20 guys a week asking her out. Instead, ask her to hand out - almost like you would ask a friend to hang out. The second she sense "date" it changes the dynamic and you are back to being "one of them".
Don't think like a guy when you approach women. They look for very different things than men and most men think like a man when approaching women. Women are emotional and much more in tune with their feelings and with your intentions when talking to them.
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STOP! The Embarrassment & Stop Premature Ejaculation For Good…Can These Techniques Really Make You Last 20 Minutes Longer In Just 7 Days?
With all the various pills, creams and gimmicks to stop premature ejaculation I did not expect much from a program called The Ejaculation Trainer. Everywhere you look on the internet there’s a “new” technique – and I’ve read about hundreds of them and even tried many of them (without any success).
Like so many guys I was suffering in silence. I was desperate for a solution. My girlfriend was getting impatient and she was NOT happy with our sex life. I lost all my confidence in the bedroom. All I wanted was a normal sex life. You know…enjoy sex and have her enjoy it too. The constant embarrassment and “fear” of sex was starting to get to me.
The methods and techniques aren’t necessarily new, but the way it teaches you the techniques is what makes The Ejaculation Trainer so useful. It starts off by giving you some “quick-fix” techniques to help you immediately. This is great as it helps you to see that this stuff really does work and it helps you to see the light.
Most premature ejaculation gimmicks only deals with the symptoms. With creams and pills you have to keep buying them (and they keep making money from you). This is different because it deals with the 3 root causes of premature ejaculation. It’s not just another band-aid solution but it helps you to stop premature ejaculation permanently.
Ejaculation is just another reflex in your body. The problem is that you just don’t (yet) know how to control it. Some guys can last for hours (just think of those porn stars).The truth is that we can all learn how to control it. This program has a series of unique exercises that helps you to get 100% control over your ejaculation. Imagine having sex all night long and having complete control over when YOU choose to ejaculate.
Though they make it sound like it’s very easy. Don’t be fooled. This program won’t do it “for you”. It does take practice. Yes, the quick-fix techniques works immediately, but if you want to learn how to get complete control over your ejaculation reflex you will have to practice and use the exercises. It does take time. Some guys can master it in a couple of days while for others it takes a couple of weeks, but in the end it’s definitely worth it.
Do I recommend you try it? Yes. This is not some gimmick or band-aid solution. It deals with the actual cause of premature ejaculation and if you follow the program you will last longer in bed. The exercises are simple, safe and they are proven to work.
Premature ejaculation ruins relationships and can strip you of all your sexual confidence. It is embarrassing and humiliating and can even cause you to develop a fear of sex. Don’t let it control you. Give yourself the
What You Have to Know About Premature Ejaculation…
Psycho-sexual issues are hot topics nowadays in medical journals. Just imagine many men are suffering from it. 30-40% of men who have difficulty to stop premature ejaculation are middle-aged. Statistics like these provide evidence that lots of men really suffer from emotional and psychological ailment. And this has to be given priority by their partner because they are also involved in this issue.
Sexually satisfied men and women stick together. A healthy sexual life brings partners closer. Men usually get depressed by premature ejaculation because of the negative effect it brings to their sex life. Some men consider sex as their way or intimate gesture of showing love and affection. It will never be great if the male partner was not able to satisfy the female partner.
Their ego will be badly hurt if there is a disability in his part to perform satisfactorily in bed. Considering that men are very particular with sex issues, it can be distressful and can cause anxiety and loss of confidence in sexual activity when you learn that you are a victim of PE. It is not only aggravating to the male but also to his partner.
Here are the things males have to know about premature ejaculation:
The first thing men have to know is to learn from his experience. His holistic being or the whole body sex does not concentrate on the penis area alone. He needs to be able to feel the whole body sensation. Let your body control and feel it, and do not let the penis dominate your senses otherwise premature ejaculation will not be controlled.
Males are more likely to experience premature ejaculation if their bodies are tensed. As mentioned earlier, let the whole body feel the sensual pleasure. If you are stressed and tensed you cannot get your attention towards it, but if you try and relax your body and feel the beat and enjoy, your whole body can control it and have the proper timing of ejaculation.
Take a shower together with your partner to relieve the stress. It will not only refresh both of you but it is also ideal for both of you to get aroused. While doing this, try to be romantic to keep the intimacy burning. Another is to take deep breaths in order to relax and lessen the stimulation and allow yourself to naturally fight the urge.
An individual can also stop premature ejaculation by learning self ejaculation through self control. One may start with masturbation by hand. Caress penis in various ways for you to learn how to stay highly aroused without pushing for a release. The moment you feel that it is approaching stop caressing. The longer the individual can take, the more he can control it.
Practicing to control will help male from premature ejaculation. If there is a problem of premature ejaculation surely there is a solution. If male still cannot stop premature ejaculation seek for some medical help. Any problem that is associated with psychological and emotional aspects needs long and serious treatment. It might not be a simple problem. There may be deeper reasons why you have it.
Easy Steps to Prevent Premature Ejaculation…
Sexual compatibility is one of the reasons that stabilize a relationship. To sustain good performance in bed, male partners should know how to stop premature ejaculation. Male partners would not want their female partners to get disappointed by having the intercourse end that fast.
Premature ejaculation is a common sexual problem in men. Statistics says that 30-40 % of men suffer from it. Men should not be depressed by what you are going through.
There are steps that will help stop premature ejaculation:
Take advantage on the foreplay, stimulate your partner. Get your attention on your stimulus. Do not be carried away by too much stimulation. Be attentive to the strong sensation otherwise you will end up unsatisfied.
Lessen your stimulation when you feel like having premature ejaculation. Try pinching lightly below the head of the penis to prevent it.
Try the self-help learning control that can help you prevent premature ejaculation. Controlling it first by yourself will help you develop ejaculatory control depending on how much you practiced it.
Try to relax. If you feel like teased and stressed look for some ways to relax you. You can also take a bath to ease you out. Aside from the fact that you will have premature ejaculation; both of you will not enjoy and end up quite disappointed.
If you have marital or relationship issues, clear it first. It is hard to have a sexually satisfying intercourse if you are both not in the mood for it. Unresolved conflict is one of the emotional factors that contribute to PE and stressful financial matters are possible contributors as well. Free yourselves from worries to have an enjoyable and satisfying sex life with your partner.
Do pelvic floor exercises. Some men prove that they were able to delay ejaculation. Do not hesitate to try it.
Try this start and stop technique. Stimulate yourself up to the point that it is coming, then stop. Start again when the stimulation has lessened. Then you will find out that the length of time for ejaculation becomes longer.
Change strokes and position. When a certain stroke gives you strong sensation change it to stay in the game. Same with position, whenever that position increase pressure, change again rather than stopping it. Enjoy your stay while you are in. Do not hang too much on part where you are enjoying. It will not keep you longer.
One must also be aware and seek an expert’s advice. Diagnosis is key to help you stop premature ejaculation. It is not healthy for both partners to experience such conditions. Any psychosexual ailment is not easy to solve. It takes a slow process and requires several treatment sessions in order to overcome it. All psychological related ailments are treatable. One big factor to help you out from it is yourself. Doctors can help but your own initiative and patience will be the primary things that will get you through to that mess. Just be patient and practice your doctor’s orders and in the end you will not be having problems anymore.
Dear Friend,
Embarrassing isn't it?
Every time you get started, you're suddenly ready to finish within minutes or even seconds... your body tenses, your breathing gets ragged... and it's all over before it even began.
She looks up at you with a mixture of surprise and amusement... she says it's okay, but deep down, she wishes you could last longer and give her the time of a life. You know it, she knows it, and you can see it in her eyes.
So yeah, it is embarrassing... but really, it's way beyond that.
It's humiliating. It makes you feel like less of a man doesn't it?
And in a way, it's even worse if you're in a long term relationship. Having to constantly look your partner in the eye after a bad performance can become a real romance killer.
It can be terrible can't it? After a while, Premature Ejaculation is more than a bedroom problem... it's tentacles can reach many aspects of your life... Your self esteem, your mood, your relationship success, and pretty much anything else that revolves around your overall happiness in life.
I'd worry all the time that my girlfriend would eventually cheat on me - after all, if I couldn't satisfy her, surely she'd give up and look for someone who could?...
Well that's exactly what she did.
Man, they were horrible times, and you're probably going through similar stuff right now.
So if you feel like you've suffered enough... if you're completely frustrated and embarrassed every time you have sex... if all you want is to gain control over your ejaculation and last longer...
...The Ejaculation Trainer is exactly what you need.
If you'd like to experience:
•Deeply satisfying sex that lasts as long as you want it to last...
•Almost instant improvements on your Premature Ejaculation, no matter how severe it may be...
•An end to the embarrassment of not being able to satisfy a woman...
...then this is what you've been looking for all along.
"I was able to go from 3-4 minutes to just under an hour on my first attempt"
"Your books have changed my life
"I am up to 15 minutes"
Here's a Sneak Peek of What's Inside...
A 5-step plan for conquering your Premature Ejaculation forever... there is no way premature ejaculation can win once you know how to really beat it
The huge mistake you're making right now that only makes it more likely you'll ejaculate as soon as sex begins...
A sexual technique that’ll drive her crazy with pleasure, but at the same time raise your "helpful" hormone levels... so she goes wild while you last longer and longer
The 4 step breathing technique you can use immediately to delay your ejaculation - this works like crazy, even if it's your first time...
Emergency techniques you must know... when you're first learning the system, slipups happen... but these will slam on the brakes and slow you back down...
How to "re-wire" your ejaculatory reflex so that it's able to tolerate longer stimulation before reaching it's peak... this will give you the 'natural ability' to last longer
How to ride the wave of arousal for long periods of time without blowing early... once you get this down, you'll realize that it's really you who controls how long you last...
Why your foreplay could quite easily be killing your sexual performance and having a long term effect on your sex life...
How to build bigger and stronger erections... the strength of your erection can play a huge role in when you ejaculate, and I'll show you how to tweak it to perfection
The astonishing technique that’ll strengthen your erection even after you ejaculate... so you can get back in the game with no "down" time
How to control the 4 stages of arousal, and make sure you don't experience them all too soon... it's game over when you hit #4, so it's really worth knowing this...
The real truth about visualization... a lot of programs will tell you this is the key, but unless you know exactly what to do, this could cause more problems
How to regulate the rate of your heart... the speed of your pulse can easily push you over the edge before you're ready, but these simple techniques for controlling it will work wonders
The male multiple orgasm - there are 4 different types, and I'll show you how to achieve all of them... your partner will think you're some kind of superhero...
How to control your ejaculation time through use of specific sexual positions... you switch positions to slow you down, speed you up, whatever you want - and she'll never realize
The shocking truth about one of the best arousal control methods ever created… it’s not what you think!
How to control your ejaculation "triggers"... most people have no idea at all about these, but once you know what they are, you can pretty easily avoid them
The easy relaxation technique that will let you go for longer, right now, this minute - sounds crazy, but this is ultra effective and anyone can do it...
How to last instantly longer in bed... 18 secret tricks that will get you lasting longer tonight... that's no exaggeration, you can literally lengthen your lovemaking today, right now
Plus Much, Much MORE!
If You Have Problems With Premature Ejaculation, or if You Just Want to Last Longer... There's One Important
Thing You Need To Know...
You're not alone...
In fact, you're very far from alone.
Statistics show premature ejaculation is a regular problem for 20-40% of all men. So at any time, 2-4 men out of 10 are suffering... and suffering regularly.
Even though it feels like you've got some kind of terrible disease and it's all your fault, it's really not. Chances are that medically, there's nothing wrong with you.
That's what makes premature ejaculation so easy to fix - in most cases, it takes nothing more than a little fine tuning to see major improvements.
It really is easy - and by following my methods, you'll get permanent results, and even last considerably longer tonight - but more on that in a minute...
Premature Ejaculation may not be a medical problem for you, but you probably know only too well how much it's affecting your life. Makes things difficult doesn't it?
I know exactly what you're going through...
I really do...
I've worked as a professional Sex Educator for years now... I've helped numerous men fix their bedroom problems, and for many of them it was regarding premature ejaculation...
But for the whole first year doing this, I was suffering from a severe case of Premature Ejaculation.
And when I say severe, I mean it.
I couldn't last more than 5-10 seconds... I'm not kidding.
The idea of lasting even a minute was crazy to me - if I could have gone for 60 seconds I'd have felt like a porn star...
And all the time, there I am, giving other men advice on how to please their partners and have a happy love life...
... when really, I couldn't even please my own girlfriend.
I felt awful - like a fraud if I'm honest. And believe me, I sure tried to beat it. I threw everything that I could at it...The pills, the creams, the performance condoms, special rhythms during sex... all kinds of stuff.
And none of it worked for me.
But do you know the funny thing?
I was trying out all the same "solutions" that I was giving to my clients - and none of them were seeing improvements either...
It was about then that I decided I had to put a stop to this. I had to find a solution that worked, and allow myself to stop feeling like such a fake...
And I'll tell you, I discovered something so powerful that I can guarantee it's not like anything you've ever seen before...
It really can fix your PE, permanently, and you'll see results almost immediately...
What's more, I'm one of the only guys in the world who's teaching this stuff.
More on the actual cure later... for now, I have to share some breakthrough discoveries I made during my research... I'm serious, this stuff will blow you away...
How Does the Ejaculation Trainer Work?
Listen up and I'll explain everything...
Beating your Premature Ejaculation is actually a very simple 3 step process.
Step 1 - Mental control... believe it or not, the thoughts running through your head during sex make a huge difference to how long you can last. With a little guidance, you'll learn how to focus on the good stuff and still last way longer than you can now.
Step 2 - Hormone regulation... as we mentioned, understanding the actual process of ejaculation will help you get a long way to sustaining your lovemaking. And once you understand it, you'll know how to regulate the exact hormones that cause you to climax, so you'll automatically last longer...
Step 3 - Physical control... lastly, there are a handful of things that are guaranteed to make you climax way sooner than you want to. If you know what they are, you can regulate or eliminate them, and suddenly the whole thing is completely under your control.
A combination of these 3 factors can make huge improvements in your lovemaking. In fact, it's not unusual to see an instant improvement once you've gotten even just a very basic understanding.
Let me break down exactly what you're going to do...
First, You'll Develop Your Mental Control...
Don't worry, it's not about practicing 10 hours a day or memorizing anything. There's nothing tough about this at all. All you need to do is understand the things that trigger your Premature Ejaculation. And once you can do that, it's a cinch.
You see, whether you know it or not, most men are absolutely clueless when it comes to this. Even if you're actively trying to delay your orgasm each time you make love, chances are you're doing exactly the wrong thing.
Even worse, by doing things wrong, you're actually speeding up the process. Imagine that - the whole time you've been trying to fix things, you've actually been making it worse!
It's important you understand that developing this control isn't at all difficult... it's just that doing it even slightly wrong will completely halt your progress - or worse yet, make you last even less time.
But don't worry. I'll reveal some powerful yet simple techniques you can use to gain full control over your mental triggers... and you'll get it in surprisingly little time.
Next, Comes Hormone Regulation...
Every single day, all day, whatever you're doing, your body is a big mess of hormones.
Some make you feel one way, some another. But that doesn't matter. Mostly we don't care about them.
But there are 2 hormones that have a direct impact on your ejaculation speed.
Dopamine and Serotonin.
Don't worry, I'm not going to give you a boring lecture on Chemistry or Biology. Far from it. I wouldn't know where to begin.
But I do know that one of those hormones makes you climax fast, while the other slows you down. Your body produces both of these during intercourse, and I'll show you the smart way to regulate them, and use both of them to your advantage.
By the way - regulating your hormones like this is perfectly safe - the same way it's safe to increase other hormones by lifting weights or running laps.
Finally, It's About Physical Control
The other 2 aspects of controlling Premature Ejaculation can have great affects on their own, but the whole thing gets ten times as effective once you add the physical control.
You see, when you get down to it, the ejaculation system in your body is just like any other bodily system. It's just a set of muscles, nerve impulses and glands. So like the other body systems and muscles, it can be trained, altered, and fine tuned.
Makes sense when you think about it doesn't it?
You see, right now, your body is wired to ejaculate in a certain way, after a certain amount of time. Maybe it's always been that way, maybe you've accidentally trained it to be that way... who knows?
But you can pretty easily re-wire it. You can refine it, and basically reprogram yourself.
You see, there's a very specific set of muscles at work when you ejaculate... and they begin working long before you actually climax.
That's why most of the Premature Ejaculation "cures" you see simply don't work. They'll show you how to strengthen the muscles through exercise, when in reality doing that isn't even half the battle.
The most important thing is understanding what makes you ejaculate and what each muscle does... only then can you put the strengthened muscles to good use.
But if you blindly go exercising away, there's a pretty good chance your enhanced muscle system will actually make you climax faster...
And that's the last thing any of us need, right?
What 99% of Premature Ejaculation programs fail to address is the fact that these muscles are the same ones that cause the problem in the first place.
Bottom line, if you don't learn how these muscles work, you're most likely never going to find a permanent solution to your problem...
And That's Why Most Premature Ejaculation Cures Never Work...
If you've looked around at all, you've probably seen a ton of other "cures" out there.
There's numbing creams, special condoms. Sprays. Pills. Audio CDs to listen to. Exercise plans.
All kinds of stuff.
Does it work?
Well, I can only speak for myself and my clients, but no, those things mostly didn't work for us. I mean, what good is a spray to numb your penis? Do you really want to be covering yourself in weird chemicals every time you have sex for the rest of your life?
Think how difficult that would make things with a new partner...
And aside from all that, there's the premature ejaculation 'guides'...
You've probably seen those too - thrust, stop, squeeze, pull, shove, pull out and all that jazz.
I mean, really, do you want to have to do odd things every time you make love? Or would you rather just get down to it and behave completely normal?
I know what I prefer....
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